ABOUT — STACIE LEE

Hi, I’M STACIE

LOVE AND SEXUALITY COACH

Welcome!

I believe we were born to experience deep love - the kind of love that feels raw, vulnerable, exciting, and connected (and sometimes scary too).

A few years ago I made a decision to bring that level of love into my life.

Maybe you’re craving it in your life too?

I believe we all deserve to feel appreciated and adored exactly as we are - as our perfectly flawed perfectly fabulous selves.

We deserve to live a life where our sexuality is celebrated, where pure love sustains us and where meaningful relationships surround us.

Deep in my core I believe we all have a tremendous capacity for love and connection. And yet, so many of us are blocked from this full expression by layers of pain, family conditioning, disappointment, fear and heartbreak.

Gently peeling back these layers reveals the wholeness and health that has always been there.

It creates a spaciousness within for us to connect to our pleasure and let it bubble up and flow through and out of us.

With the shedding of each layer our heart is free to open up a little more. We experience love ever so much more deeply. We are able to invite in love from others. We can give and receive love, feeling it flow back and forth between ourselves and those around us.

This takes courage.

It takes standing firm in our commitment to love even when we are scared.

It requires choosing love over fear.

And it requires a continual embracing of both.

It is not for the faint-hearted.

But it is so worth it.

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HOW WE CAN WORK TOGETHER

SIGNATURE PROGRAM

6 Month Journey to Heal Your Heart, Connect to Your Pleasure and Open Your Heart to Love.

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RETREATS

The Sacred Feminine
(Ubud, Bali)
August 1 - 10, 2019 (Women only)
Healing Love: Tantra Retreat (Bali)
August 15 - 25, 2019 (Mixed)

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How I got here

Five years ago I was in the midst of a relationship where I felt trapped. I looked at the man I was with, the same one who said he loved me deeply and wanted to marry me and have kids together and thought, ‘He’s so closed.’ ‘He’s so disconnected.’ ‘He’s numb.’ ‘He has no capacity for true joy.’ ‘He doesn’t truly feel.’

I desperately wanted to believe HE was the problem. I said I wanted to leave him. I tried many times. But somehow I couldn’t make myself do it. I was stuck.

And after a while I realised why.

You see, I believe that when we stay with someone longer than we say we want to, it’s because we have found our match. He was a mirror for all of the parts of myself I didn’t want to see.

All those things I said about him? I quickly realised each statement could equally be applied to me.

I was closed. I was disconnected. I was numb. I lacked the capacity for true joy. I didn’t let myself truly feel.

I realised I was the one whose heart was closed to love.

He was just reflecting back the state of my heart.

So instead of looking outside myself to change things I went within.

And I unearthed so much:

the pain and wounding from my childhood,
the unhealthy beliefs about men I was holding,
the disowned anger I didn’t want to see,
the anger I was projecting onto my romantic partners, one after the other,
my fear of being abandoned,
my fear of being unlovable,
the resentment I carried towards our culture for the way it teaches us women to play the ‘good girl’ and ‘make nice’,
and the fear I had of embracing the full range of my emotions.

Piece by piece I shone a light on all parts of myself. Through shamanic practices, tantra, shadow work, breath work and western psychology I connected to and reclaimed the parts I had rejected. I finally found true healing and a real sense of wholeness. My energy was freed up from pushing away those parts of myself I hadn’t wanted to see.

And with this new spaciousness and energy I learned to connect to my pleasure as a source of love, radiance and aliveness. I embraced Tantric embodiment practices and learned to let my emotions flow through me. I learned to cultivate my sexual energy as a source of life-force and healing.

My heart relaxed and I finally felt safe to love and be vulnerable.

And it’s from this place - heart open to life and love - that I live today.

*And through this process of turning inward and focusing on what needed tending to in myself, my relationship issues resolved. We parted ways with no charge around the break-up - able to see that, despite a deep love for each other, we were no longer a match.

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FORMAL TRAINING

I’m a certified Sex, Love and Relationship Coach through Layla Martin’s Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality.

This (trauma-informed) in-depth 600-hr training was different to most typical ‘life coaching’ courses - it prepared me to work with my clients on the three levels of the brain - the cortical (thinking), limbic (emotional) and primal levels.

My work is different from straight ‘mindset work’ promoted by most life coaches.

My approach looks to heal past wounds by working with the body and the subconscious mind through talk coaching, shamanic practices, tantric energy practices, pleasure practices, shadow work, breath work, meditation and visualisation exercises.

I seek to guide my clients towards experiencing true love within themselves, with the divine, and the people they love. This allows them to experience love at deeper, more satisfying and connected levels with the people in their lives.

OTHER TRAINING

Completed (Foundational Level 1) Biodynamic Breathwork and Trauma Release Training as part of the Biodynamic Breathwork and Trauma Release System (BBTRS).
Completed ‘Neuro-Linguistic Programming’ and ‘Advanced Coaching Skills’ training at The Coaching Institute (TCI) as part of their Master Practitioner of Coaching Program.
In my 20s I completed a Bachelor’s Degree, a Master of Global Communication and two years of a law degree before I finally realised that living in my head and not in my body was not a fun way to live (or love)!